If we were to see all people – all beings – as expressions of our Divine Self – then how could there be any lesser or greater love?
If we could realise – see and feel that all beings are NOT just expressions of our personal – psychological self, but of the fundamental Ultimate Reality –
Spiritual Beingness that we are, then division, conflict, jealousy, fear and anger would be seen through.
It is being caught into the mere appearance of things, the superficiality, the illusion of separateness that causes our stress and suffering.
Realise Reality and be beyond your self.